Kia ora, Ngaire no mates here...
Mei/May 2, 2025
Phrase of the wiki: I te whakahōhā rātou/They were being annoying
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We’ve got a hefty cultural catch-up for you today including kākahu/clothes, waiata, and co-governance drops 🤔.
Then in ‘kōrero’ we wānanga whether friends are important for the cultural connection/reconnection journey and why I’m a bit of a Ngaire No Mates in my new reo Māori class.
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Community poll: Is making new mates important for the cultural reconnection/connection journey?
from the documentary ‘Māori Battalion March to Victory’
The horopaki/context: E te whānau, It seems to make sense that as we learn Māori, go to kaupapa Māori events, or even just yarn about kaupapa Māori pukapuka/books and kiriata/films we’ve enjoyed at the office watercooler, it’d be nice—and probably helpful—to make friends with new people on a similar ara/path.
But, for me at least, it’s not easy. This year, I’m feeling a little Ngaire No Mates in my new reo Māori class. That’s not due to anyone being unfriendly, but rather nā ngā mea/because;
I’ve moved learning institutions and am starting from scratch,
Everyone speaks Māori ALL the time, which is good but (because I’m a bit slower) makes it hard for me to contribute anything but shallow conversation,
I’ve made myself so pukumahi/busy during the week I can hardly find time and energy to hang with my already established friends, let alone new ones. (I’m introverted, so max out socially with way fewer people than most),
Possibly the fact I often wear odd tōkena/socks inside out 🤓.
Anyway, I’m committed to the mission. A couple weeks back, determined to make some progress I signed up for a bilingual pub quiz with some fellow tauira/students, only to be thwarted by Cyclone Tam and a seriously packed out harbour bridge. As I pulled off the motorway and drove home, 50% mad at myself for not leaving earlier, 50% relieved I could go to bed, I wondered if the effort was worth it.
I mean, I’m pretty keen to connect, go to the odd pub quiz, have more people to enjoy Māori events with—but I also get that we’re all busy and maybe just a quick ‘kia ora in class’ hononga/relationship is fine too.
I just wish I knew where everyone else stood… and because it’s too weird to ask straight out, I came up with the genius idea of conducting an anonymous poll here instead.
Maybe the answers can help us all feel a little more confident connecting in person? (It’s going to be that or the tauaro/opposite, I have no control on this one!).
If you’re interested, pop your whakaaro/thoughts in the poll so we can all have a bit of a nosy.
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If someone (cool) you meet at a kaupapa Māori class or event makes an effort to be friends, your honest feelings are:
☺️ Stoked - it’s cool to meet new people with a shared passion
💓 Happy - unsure I’m able to follow through, but happy
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If anyone has yarns about making friends on their reconnection/connection journey—whether touching or pōuri/sad or awkward or funny—you KNOW I’d love to hear them. Hit reply please!
The pānui/newsletter next wiki is going to be ātaahua/beautiful 😉.
Thanks for reading and your support this wiki fam. Heaps. Hei konā/Bye for now.
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