Got tikanga gaps? Me too. Here's a plan to fix em.

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17 Oct, 2025

Mōrena e te whānau,

Nau mai, hoki mai ki Te Arawhata, the newsletter making it easier for us all to stay connected with—and just ruddy enjoy—te ao Māori ia wiki, ia wiki.

This Paraire/Friday we’re bringing you;

  • talk of the tāone catch-ups feat. highlights amongst the hōhā

  • kaupapa Māori events that will definitely whakapiki/improve life

  • kete filling media recommendations for learning and play(/learning)

  • a deal o te wiki from someone who never does deal o te wiki…s 👀🙄

Then in kōrero, we’re talking options for filling our tikanga gaps.

Get in there fam.

 

🗞️ news to keep us in the know

 

🤗 events cos nothing beats time kanohi ki te kanohi/face to face

TE WHANGANUI-A-TARA/WELLINGTON:
Māori Sidesteps – Māori Made Mischief theatre play
28 Oct-1 Nov I Circa Theatre I @circatheatre
Contemporary showband The Māori Sidesteps are serving crooning and comedic goodness. Expect a refreshing dose of truth-telling.

TĀMAKI MAKAURAU/AUCKLAND:
Raranga Wānanga with Ahi Nyx at Whau Festival
18 Oct I Avondale Art Park I @whauthepeople
Ahi Nyx will be weaving her magic with us in the heart of Avondale. Come and join, it’s free!

HERETAUNGA/HASTINGS:
Toitū Te Reo Māori Language Festival
13-14 Nov I Toitoi Hawke's Bay Arts & Events Centre I @kauwaka.ltd
A platform for thousands of New Zealanders to come together, Toitū Te Reo will inspire, entertain, unite, challenge, excite, and activate.

ŌTAUTAHI/CHRISTCHURCH:
Āhuataka: A Wānaka of Kāi Tahu Woven Adornment exhibition
17 Oct-10 Nov I Toi Moroki CoCA I @cocotoimoroki
Experience this exhibition bringing together a community of Kāi Tahu arts practitioners to celebrate the living practice of traditional Māori weaving.

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💓 media recs for a deeper dive now or later

For the learns:

Mātauranga Māori pukapuka
Hirini Moko Mead was born two years before the Great Depression hit. He knew Tā Apirana Ngata personally. This is his dream fulfilled and must be on your shelf.

Get it here

Free I 20min eps I Mostly reo Pākehā

 

For the fun (ok and learns):

Pakiaka Māori word game
It’s MEANT for kids but I don’t have any in te ao marama/the world of light yet and this is my Sunday. If you secretly like fantasy-anime shows too, this is a great way to practise your reo!

Watch it here

Free I 20min eps I Reo Māoria

 

While we’re talking about kete filling…

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Māori artist, Esther McDonald, makes (rad) contemporary, hand-thrown ceramics for everyday use over on Waiheke Island.

And she DOESN’T normally do discounts e hoa mā so this is a super special one just for us.

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🗣️ notes from our connection journey to fuel yours

Got tikanga gaps? Me too. Here’s how I plan to fix them

*This post is sponsored by Te Wānanga o Aotearoa (but also only contains honest yarns). If you’re looking to learn more about tikanga, they offer free programmes that can help get you started.

This year I’ve really tried to step-up my commitment to learning te reo Māori AND tikanga Māori. They’re inextricably linked, right? Tikanga is the key that opens te ao Māori to us and te reo gives us the tools to climb deeper—both are necessary for confident operation i roto/within.

As you’ll all know, the combo-learning trip is pretty ruddy mind-blowing. Mind blowing and, if you’re anything like me, full of hē/fails;

Like the time I mistakenly walked onto a marae without being called (long story and under the tohutohu/instructions of an aunty, I swear).

Or the time I got ‘teke’ and ‘tere’ the wrong way round. Twice in a row.

And I won’t be forgetting that pre-emptive waiata tautoko anytime soon.

The ones that hurt the most? Definitely the tikanga missteps fam. When I make a language mistake it’s usually pretty clear my intentions were good but the impact of rudeness, disrespect, and even danger when I’ve got tikanga wrong truly makes me want to find a dark western world corner to curl up in and never try again. 

People say it’s common sense, right? That if we’re paying attention, we should be able to pick up on what’s right and wrong. I try. Hard. 

My main method of learning tikanga so far has been to follow closely at the heels of someone more knowledgeable than myself and basically copy them. However, somewhere along the line I always seem to miss a cue. The only strategy I’ve come up with from there is to apologise profusely underneath a red hot, possibly about to be crying when I find my corner, face.

I’d like to find a better strategy for 2026, nō reira/so I’ve been researching options. In case any of you are in the same waka, here are my top three;

  1. spend more time in more Māori spaces and continue with trial and error - something I’ll no doubt continue to do but nooooot the most comfortable.

  1. step up my tikanga focus in my reo Māori course - what I’m locking in for now. Aspects of tikanga are folded into everything we learn but honestly? This year I’ve shirked it a little to focus on the reo. Next year I aim to do better.

  1. do a dedicated tikanga course (like one of these) - what I plan to do some time in the next few years to really step things up (an especially good option for those who’d rather learn about pōwhiri than passive sentence structures).

That’s my plan e te whānau, what’s yours? Reply to this email to let me know, I’d really love to hear what’s important/difficult/exciting for you in this decision.


Another pānui/newsletter another step forward together nē? 👈🏽 Cheesy AND true.

Hei ā tērā wiki/Till next week e hoa mā.

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